- Don't isolate yourself. I did this mistake. I was angry to world, to people, to my life. I was sitting in my room all day. Watching movies, playing Championship Manager 03-04 etc. And then i realized that there are some people outside, who can share some interest with you, who can be with you. Never Ignore Social Skills.
- You are alone. It means that you are responsible for all the things. There is no one except you, to help you, to motivate you. Alone.
- Don't get fat. Please go to gym. ( I learned this very hard way. WOMEN WILL IGNORE YOU. So, start today and be fit! )
- Add : For those "I am fit but no girlfriend" sayers, read "No More Mr. Nice Guy". Having a good product Nothing without Selling.
- Leave the parents' house as soon as possible. Learn washing dishes, paying bills. Learn Life.
- Travel. I did this, I am so glad now. If you don't have a big budget use Workaway and WWOOF. Workaway.info the site for free work exchange. Gap year volunteer for food and accommodation whilst travelling abroad.
- Talk with that girl. Just go, smile and say "Hello, I am X. What about drinking coffee this weekend?". At worse, she will say "No!" and you will feel bad only 2-3 days. Better than regret.
- About shyness. Read this : Deniz Murat's answer to Why I am so Shy?
source: http://www.quora.com/What-did-you-learn-in-your-20s
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