One approach about How to get married is, first date the person and try to get to know him/her before marrying. Because, otherwise you're marrying a complete stranger. And it may not work out...
On closer inspection, we learn that, a lot of those marriages that are breaking, are not breaking because the couple didn't know one another, but because
When to marry?
As soon as you feel mature enough. Even if you're a student, but there's place for you to keep her, and your parents can feed her, then get married.
After marrying, nobody ever says I married too early, everyone says I should have married earlier.
What can we do to prepare for marriage?
Understand the laws of divorce.
Read a _few_ books on marriage.
It's about expectations. Expect that she will talk back.
There are people who are not interested in marriage.
Some guys think all women are bad, some girls think all women are bad.
Anas ra relates:
Whoever Allah provides with a righteous wife, then He has assisted him in half his deen. Then he should just fear in the other half.Although it addresses men, because he (saw.) had male audience, it works for women as well.
... to be continued ...
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